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Thursday, September 27, 2007

A BORING 6 MONTHS

I do not consider myself the most EXCITING person. I mean I think I am a fun person to hang out with sometime and I tend to throw nice 'get-togethers' but for the most part I am such a homebody as basic boring person. No extra exciting ventures like sky-diving of the Colorado Rockies or scuba diving with the whales or partying every weekend, just plain head in the books, mind in the sky boring Candace. So can someone explain to me why it seems that I can't just have a BORING LIFE!!! Some thing's always going on, some one's always doing something or causing me to do something and I seem to always be on edge.
So
1} This whole moving thing is so annoying but THANK JESUS I found a place I really like, I decided to go small and choose a studio because I won't be out here much longer and since my crazed ex-roommate did me the honor of taking all the big stuff I can fit the rest of my stuff in there and the place has a HUGE walk in closet on top of a coat closet. I love the place, hopefully my credit is not too shot so that I can get it without the whole co-signer/rejection thing. My wonderful big brother is helping me find a place and my parents were out here also helping and brought food, me and mom cooked, dad worked on the car with the Mr. {awwww bonding moments lol}, and we replaced some of the small things that that crazy person stole it was a nice time actually. On edge but trying to trust.
2} I made a mistake of becoming really close friends with some girls on my job and at first it was all great and I recently became one of their children's god-mother and I love him to death!!! But she is a BRAT!! Ok quick summation: The first one I met first and clicked with immediately, I'm her son's godmom. She has a tendency to think that everyone should spoil her like her husband does and I'm not really into the whole spoil another woman thing so of course I would ignore her tantrums. She also thinks attacking people is a way of just saying what's on her mind and she doesn't get that I could cuss you out and be done with the whole thing so as we got closer and these things got out more and more I started to distance myself from her {If I told any story in detailed yall would be mad that I even spoke to this girl anymore}. The second one I met about a year after I started at the hospital and she was closer to my age and majoring in the same thing at Temple so we hit it off and we actually like to hang out at the same lounges and places so we would go out together {mistake #1 my father said}. She knew friend #1 before I did but wasn't that close to her and in the beginning she was cool but then friend #1 gets pregnant, tells me about it, and friend #2 didn't really appreciate it. So since it came out she's been trying to get really close to her and they have been ever since, she is the other god-mom. Once Sug was born, it became a battle of Who Could Be Super-Godmom and trust I did not have the time or money to be in that kinda competition and some other things were said that caused me to fall back from her too. Well now since I don't work there anymore I don't see them anymore and therefore don't really speak to them anymore as I did and it seems to now bother them. They want to meet and talk about everything I don't really want to because what's the point??? I can't change who they are and who they are bothers me. The Mr says to just not say anything to any of them {mind you friend #1 is his sister-in-law who introduced us lol he's so ignorant}, my father said I don't have time to get involved in that kind of girly mess, my brother says if its gonna bother me then maybe I should say my piece but if I know it's gonna turn into a brawl then its best to leave them to eachother and go about my business but something in me wants to hear them and express how I felt about everything that happened but is it really worth it???
3} God that last one was looong, lol so on to the case. I sent out the demand letter, my parents and I have signed affidavits, I've filed police reports and actions, and now that it's gotten even bigger it looks like we'll be going to both small claims court to get some of my things back and be paid for the things she stole but we'll also probably be going to civil court for slander and malicious production on her part. Who would've thought that I'd be going through this kinda drama with her or anyone else??? CAN I PLEASE JUST HAVE A 6 MONTH SPAN OF BOREDOM?!?!?

Stay tuned for the next episode...

posted by DSweet1 @ Thursday, September 27, 2007

2 Comments:

At 6:16 PM, Tranquility826 said…

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At 6:16 PM, Tranquility826 said…

looooooooool..girl this is like a soap opera..esp story #2..now won't you have to see friend #1 alot since that's the Mr.'s sister in law?? You don't want any family beef before ya'll get down the aisle..but I agree with ur brother..say ur piece and be out..