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Saturday, June 10, 2006

Here We Go Again...

Of course once I've gone through everything, it's only normal that I emerge with a series of questions that you guys get to ponder over with me :-)

My apartment is really good right now...I'm setting things up the way I like. Still need a lil more but I am determined to stick with this budget and my saving goals. But of course being the New Yorker I am, I immediately changed my locks, my landlord came over during the week to do some renovations and requested a copy of the key. Some say that she is entitled to a key but I can't see how that makes ANY sense, especially since it seems she's in a habit of coming over to the place without calling first. Now I plan on getting my fire-arms permit in a few months, what if I blew her head off because she just waltzed in her unexpected {lol...just kiddin}Since we're gonna be away for a while I gave her a copy to change the refrigerator and other renovations that she needs to make in the kitchen, but I know I'm gonna want them back AS SOON AS I GET BACK!!! In a psychotic city like Philadelphia, should you trust the landlord with a spare?

Ok, onto the plagues:
If a relationship didn't last longer than a year, even if you grew really close, is there a need for "closure"? and if YES, how does one go about fulfilling this? Does this answer the Whys and What Ifs?

If there is no closure, can you truely forgive or get over a wrong done, if you can't forget? Is it the lack of closure that causes this or is it our own wanting to hold on that makes us hurt over and over again?

Should one wait until their 30s to get married? If they did wait until their 30s to have children, would they be considerd OLD parents?

Ok, I'm done for now...
Dr. CH, MD {prayerfully}

posted by DSweet1 @ Saturday, June 10, 2006

2 Comments:

At 2:26 PM, poyesha said…

dont get me started with that, because for some reason every mothereffer has a copy of my key, the plumber, cleaner, maintenance man, there is a person for every task and they all have keys, i dont feel comfortable with this so i made my father buy me new locks and i bought one of them inside locks that u can latch when ure home that im bout to install this weeknd.. philly is mad effin scarry, and i was thinkin bout gettin my license to carry also but i wanna go to the shooting range a couple times tho..
At 4:24 PM, Tranquility826 said…

u and poi are both crazy..but yall can take me to the range, I"m down for that..I never really thought about the fact that the maintenance people can get in, but so much stuff breaks in these apts and I want them jokers there ASAP..leave in His hands..no need to worry

in my opinion..everything needs closure..the amount and type of closure just depends on the type of relationship and since that one was only 1 yr..maybe an extensive amount of closure isn't needed!