| Saturday, August 05, 2006 |
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I haven't really been motivated to write anything and when I kinda am, I have no time. I'm still working like a slave and even got another position at Hanehmann shadowing a surgical resident for 4 credits!!! {yeah me! :-) lol} and every weekend, if I'm not picking up more hours at the hospital, I'm city hopping. Last weekend I was in Miami, and two weekends before that I was in Atlanta, next weekend I'm going home to surprise mommy for her bday but the weekend right after that I'm headed back to Atl {my future there looks a lil more promising}, I will also conquer Vegas and St. Thomas by my next bday, anyone up for it, you're willing to join me, I would love a girl's get-away too (hmmm, something to think about).
I'm starting to think "grown up" thoughts as in looking into post Grad/Med School, I will def need a car after I graduate if not before, and I'm actually looking into real estate prospects and property down south is so much cheaper than anywhere else {but shhhh don't say anything until I land one ;-) lol}, as well as stock investing {i'll leave that to my brother}.
I tend to do a lot of self-evaluations {hey, if u can't tell urself what's screwed up about u, it'll hurt alot more when someone you can't stand points it out and is right...just my philosophy} Anyway, I found out a few more things about myself that I'm still not totally sure if I'm totally sold on:
1-Can all future relationships be based/classified/or prosperous because of just ONE?
2-In trusting anyone are you purposefully leaving yourself open to being hurt?
3-I believe adamantly that just because you would give up your left lung for your "friend", u don't have the right to get mad when they don't see anything wrong with not doing the same but can that really be a friend or just an associate? should u have to "cover your own ass" when it comes to someone who calls u their best friend?
Here's a scenario that has pissed me off for the past week, one of my girls back home has this "best friend" that she became closed to out of what I think must've been need (too much to explain). Well they decided to move in together which a lot of people were a little against about, it seemed to work and they got along fine. Well one day, she asked her friend to wake her up because she was finishing a project late the night before and wanted to make a good impression on her new job. Not only does her friend wake her up late but she left her to get to her job which is two blocks up from hers. Anyway, when she gets to work and their sitting down to lunch a co-worker who joined them asked her friend "So, how do you like your car?" and she says, "I love it!". So not only did she have to take 2 trains in the heat of New York {yes this was the tip of the heat wave} but she didn't even have to, her "best friend" had a car and she was on the train!!!
Is that really your friend??? {this has been the question from us-her real friends all week} or is it that different people have a different code of loyalty?
Ok, I think that's it...
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posted by DSweet1 @ Saturday, August 05, 2006  |
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feel you on the slave work..congrats with the shadowing..i hear u about traveling, I'm tryna do the same..self-evals are always a plus in my book
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#1- confusing me..i dunno
#2- there's a chance for hurt w/ anything..yea, you're leaving urself open, but you've already decided that the person is trustworthy, right?
#3- if they're ur best friend and they wouldn't do the same..then they really ain't your best friend and I would personally get mad..at that point I would have to re-evaluate our "relationship"
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I think people do have a diff code of loyalty, that's why before giving anyone any type of status in ur life in regards to friends, you should know their level and see if they're comparable to urs..sounds like they have differing levels..
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ok, so I'm bored at work and left this long behind comment..lol..lol
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feel you on the slave work..congrats with the shadowing..i hear u about traveling, I'm tryna do the same..self-evals are always a plus in my book
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#1- confusing me..i dunno
#2- there's a chance for hurt w/ anything..yea, you're leaving urself open, but you've already decided that the person is trustworthy, right?
#3- if they're ur best friend and they wouldn't do the same..then they really ain't your best friend and I would personally get mad..at that point I would have to re-evaluate our "relationship"
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I think people do have a diff code of loyalty, that's why before giving anyone any type of status in ur life in regards to friends, you should know their level and see if they're comparable to urs..sounds like they have differing levels..
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ok, so I'm bored at work and left this long behind comment..lol..lol